Yeah, some people on eBay get it ... something is put up for sale with an end date and they get that their role is to buy it, pay for it and collect it. Some people though feel that their role is to buy it and forget it about it for as long as they want, not pay or arrange to collect. Do they go to Tesco, fill up their trolley, take it to the checkout then ask them to hold onto it for a few days whilst they think about it too? Just plain rude in my opinion.
Respect is free to give. Trust should be offered, Acceptance without prejudice always